Honestly, instead of complaining how about you learn the most basic tactical concept even insects understand and stay hidden before you attack.
Oh, so I have to draw you a picture? Fine, we do stay hidden. Nobody's on the town map. There's no real way of making a good ambush as scouting using preview (unlike sending in bluesuits) is basically efortless. It's like everyone in the entire wasteland has his own spy satelite. The game goes like this: two teams are camping WM, one enters, takes the town, goes out. If the other one catches them during those 30 seconds, it's on. But it usually isn't. So to actually have a fight you have to camp the town and provoke the other guys. This shit looks more like a complex mating ritual than actual combat. And I'm not even complaining about the fact that it looks both stupid and unrealistic. It boils down to waiting. And waiting. And waiting. There's no fun in that. I actually did go for my PSP once town control started today. I advanced quite a few ranks in Tekken 6. Had to take two 15 minute breaks to see some action in FO. In about 6 hours. Get it now?
If you want to keep it as it is, just be honest and vote to rename the game. I'd suggest "Fallout: War is Boring", "Fallout: Guard Duty" or "Fallout: Did You Know That Soldiers Spend But A Tiny Fraction Of Their Time Actually Fighting?"