well i figured out what was wrong, partly bug i think!
1.since i created my first base i was able to set ranks to any records(made by create new record for non-member), i think this is bug only for my base.
2. i figured out that players is "realy" member only if accepted invitation at any base comp.Now sharing works correctly for me too, but iam still able to set ranks for records like frends or enemies or so.
I have new question for this topic: How long can frend(status:friend) acces base which is not shared to him and i bring him there once?