When I finally get a weapon or a new armor some high level punk will come by and kill me then loot me this makes me very angry cause I just joined and I'm already getting Fed up with it.
That's because you put to much value on items. A loner guys can scavenge all the equipment me needs by murdering the Crazies around VC. When I first started the game a year or so back I felt the same, until I realised; wait I haven't lost everything. I still have my character and my experience, my friends and what not. All you lose it a few thousand caps worth of stuff, which in game terms is nothing.
move to an unguarded city, they are way more friendly than guarded ones