Seriously guys, this is getting personal. My character was torn apart the other day because some fella "hates Russians". Are you even serious? It's a game. An online multiplayer computer video game. If someone's getting personal issues from it, or tries to bring their personal issues into it, I'd say needs to take some serious video game hiatus. Or two.
But if you're still willing to stay, and your characters constantly get killed by people that don't speak your language, and you choose to suffer and cry instead of learning from it... Well, then what else can I say? Suffer and cry if you must.