It's a pain that the devs act like that, I understand your feelings and I would wait for an apologise from that particular DEV, I doubt that he will actually, but that would be nice of him and show you that he realises that such behaviour is abnormal for anyone who respects himself and the people that surround him. I realise that typing this post may get me banned because I've dared to give a DEV a hint on what he should do, but I've also encountered weird behaviour from one of the GMs (Skaven) and never seen him apologise, so I'll take the risk.
PS I love the fact that this thread doesn't get locked/moved to junk, looks like our world is getting better after all.